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Let’s Talk About Salat.

Praying can have a profound impact on an individual’s life, influencing their mental, emotional, spiritual, and even physical well-being. Prayer is a mercy from ALLAH to us Muslims. We pray to ALLAH because we need Him not the other way around, ALLAH is free of all need! We pray for ourselves, our family, friends, and society It’s our gift from ALLAH SWT to give us a chance to gain his mercy and blessings. here are some keyways in which prayer can make a difference: 1.      Emotional and Mental Well-Being Stress Reduction: Prayer often involves moments of stillness, reflection, and mindfulness, which can help reduce stress and anxiety. It provides a sense of calm and peace by allowing individuals to release their worries. Emotional Comfort: For many, prayer serves as a source of solace during difficult times. It can provide hope, reassurance, and a sense of being cared for, especially when facing challenges or uncertainty. Improved Focus and Clarity: P...
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Hard pill...

It may seem crazy how no one has a safety net for you when you are falling, but you always seem to be there to catch and protect whoever needs you. Truth is you can’t expect your way of showing love to be someone else’s behavior. The people that you’re here for today may never return the favor or offer you their helping hand. That is why it is extremely important that you keep Allah in your heart as your one and only friend. Because whose there for you no matter what? Who come through for you no matter what? Who loves you and challenges you to be better no matter what?... Stay focused.  ~JB
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Lets talk about procrastination.

Procrastination has always been a problem in my life. I do it often and I always regret it soon after. I am usually overwhelmed and sluggish when I have the need to procra stinate but that does not mean I am lazy, in fact it is the total opp osite.   This week I had the op portunity to have a conv ersation with my professor about procra stination and why we do it. He asked the class why we procrastinate . The question was so obvious to me. We procra stinate because we are lazy and horrible at time management . I was quickly corrected and the reason he gave opened my eyes and I began to realize so much about myself.   Procuration can affect time management, but poor time management is not the cause for procrastination. It is more so linked to psychological reasons, reasons I never thought of before . I personally like to say ‘ah, I don’t have time right now for that, I'll do it later.’ With that thought, all I am doing is tryi ng to convince myself that the reason is ...
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Be done and move on!

  When a narcissist reaches out to you after a good amount of time it is only for validation. T hey want you to respond, calm or angry any response validates them. It gives the supply they need to boost their self-esteem. It proves t o them that they still hold power over you, and you are still available for their abuse .   They are not wrong to think this because it is factual. You still have things to say to them, so much on your chest that you have yet to let go of. You want them to know what they have done to you because in your normal mind they should care and feel remorse and give you the closure you need but they do not share your normal feelings and will never feel sorry for what they have done or give you a peace of mind. Be done and move on!    
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Good Reads!

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  This book is excellent! I love having it in my collections. It is full with 100+ DUAs from the Quran and Hadith. You can buy this book on Amazon.com Learn to control your emotions by reading and taking this book in. Oh how I love my babies, but they make me crazy at times. The last thing I want to do is raise them with anger and hurt.  This is a great book to help parents with their frustrations and stress.  You can find and buy all these books on Amazon.com.
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Self improvement

No one is responsible for our emotional intelligence. We cannot live in a state of mind broken over who has hurt us or why they did so. We have to work on fixing ourselves from the trauma and leave the ones who got us here behind. ~JB 
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Healing no hurting!

No matter how hard they have tried to break you or how bad they have made you feel,  returning the same hurt to them won't help you heal or make you happy.   ~JB
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